This one is a little different that my normal posts but I thought it would be fun to shake things up a bit and allow you guys to get to know me a little more! I thought it would be fun to get a little more personal with you guys! I think everyone kind of has a few things on their list that they just can’t look passed when it comes to dating someone and I think that’s okay. I think that having things that are unreasonable aren’t fair but when there are things that just absolutely won’t work, you have to be real and upfront about it with yourself and to the other person. So, here are my top 5 relationship deal breakers.
I don’t know but all my life this one has been at the top of my list. I mean, if they’ve done it in the past that’s okay and I could maybe look over it but if they continue to do it day to day I just can’t. I guess there are many reasons why this is such a deal breaker for me but I don’t want to get too into detail. It’s just not something I would want to raise my future kids around either and that’s a big thing for me.
2. Unable to Admit Being Wrong
This has also been a top one for me because after being in previous relationships where something was always my fault no matter the situation, I just can’t put myself in that place again. It brings so much misery to a person and relationship and who wants to live with that the rest of your life? Not me that’s for sure! I think it’s just shows how well-rounded someone is when they can realize they are wrong in a situation and can talk about it.
3. Doesn’t Want Kids
I know this one is in the future still but why be with someone if you know something is never going to happen? Having kids one day is something that is really important to me and I can’t imagine not having them ever. It’s just something that is way too big to look passed.
4. No Chemistry With His Family
This might seem silly but until you have experienced dating someone who you do not get along with their family at all and there is always drama, you will never understand. These are people you are going to have to deal with on a very regular basis and I think it’s so important to love them just as much as your own family! Especially because you may be spending holidays with them instead of yours so why hate every second of it? This is so important especially if you do have kids because they are going to be a huge part of their lives and you don’t want every thing to be a fight do you? I don’t! This is a big one for me.
5. Complete Lack of Ambition or Complete Workaholic
So, the first part of this is a big thing because I’m always finding something to do or trying to chase a new dream or purpose and I couldn’t imagine being with someone who wasn’t the same way or near it? Or pushing me to chase my dreams because he would want me to do the same. But on the other end of the spectrum of that, I don’t want my significant other to work so much that he never sees me or someday our future kids. I want it to be important to him to make it to our kids events or events of mine or to just go out together to still “date”. I think that’s something that could really ruin a relationship but that may just be me!
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